A few years back I attended a wedding for a dear friend who had unfortunately lost both her parents 10 years prior. She was very close to her mother and father and the thought of them not being at her wedding was extremely upsetting to her, so she improvised!
The ceremony and reception were at Nanina’s In The Park in Belleville, NJ. They held the wedding outdoors in the park area with short rows of chairs for the guests attending. At the first row behind the bride where her parents would have sat were 2 candles, one on each chair representing them in spirit
Later at the reception, the candles were placed on a small table decorated with flowers near where the bride was sitting with her new husband and the flames remained lit throughout the day.
After the newlywed couple had their dance, a picture montage (before same day edits were available) that included pictures of her parents, some of her with them before their passing, as well as pictures of the wedding day patrons were interlaced as if to give the illusion that they were part of this special day.
So you are ready to take your love to the next level and walk down the aisle, and you want your wedding day to be perfect like as if it were a scene in a movie (or as we at Live Picture Studios like to say, “cinematic”)?
All brides dream of the day they will get married and envision a fairy tale wedding ceremony. Unfortunately, many brides (and couples) focus on the least important stuff first (favors, invites, cake, etc.) putting the more important stuff (videographers, Photographers, entertainment, Etc.) last. Don’t get me wrong, all that stuff is important, however, some of these need to be a priority much earlier than others before your big day. Those who make this mistake sometimes result with weddings that have fancy stuff but are held in moderate to mediocre event halls with amateur photographers and videographers that were available “last minute”. Ironically, all that last minute stuff ends up costing about the same as a perfect wedding that was properly planned.
So to help avoid this from happening to you, we have compiled a list in order of importance to create the perfect wedding in nine months.